I learned a very hard lesson, a very long time ago. Do not mix friend groups, it will always end badly, even if at first it seems like you’ve successfully introduced friends to friends whether it be, work friends with uni friends or boyfriends to best friends it never works out.
There are many reasons why a person you love dearly doesn’t get on with another friend you love just as equally and I have lived through many of them. Whether it be your best friend telling you that you spend to much time with your boyfriend or your work friend trying it on with your uni friend and being hurt in the process of a let down. What is a girl to do. Well pick your event and guest list carefully as a cocktail of the wrong people can lead to disastrous consequences and highly likely, a hangover.
But what happens when you have to pick one over the other, even if it breaks your heart to say goodbye, would you do it to save a relationship over friendship or the other way around. In the past I’ve chosen a relationship over friendship and vice versa I looked at both people and how each of them affects my life and chose the one that would aid my happiness rather than prevent it. But that’s not to say that I think men or friends are disposable, I just look at how much damage can be caused to my social group and if a choice has to be made then I have no problem cutting that person out.
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