Common Double Standards Of Society

Since recently joining the singleton club there is one issue that has bothered me and that is the standards of society regarding women and their sexual needs.

Can a woman go out and fulfill her sexual needs with out being labelled the answer is no. Many of my male friends go out on a Wednesday, Friday and Saturday night, bring a girl back fulfill their needs and send the lady in question packing! If a woman were to say do the same, she is named usually as a slag or a whore. I was told by one of my dearest male friends that its okay when a man does it as it just makes him more of a man, but when a woman does it she's then seen as easy. With my single days well and truly in motion I wonder if I have been called those things, the men around me are either wary of me or try it on and I believe this is due to my openness to discussing sex and my strong headed attitude, its in my nature and being a producer I feel the need to have a presence I am no wall flower and hate feeling unable especially heading into a vary male dominated industry. Now I am the kind of person that talks openly about sex, men and my love of cock! They are my three favorite things to discuss, now many people have issues with this as it's seen as rude or inappropriate yet if a man would do the same he would just be seen as 'being a man' yet if I were to do the same those label's would come into play. This makes me angry, angry that these sexist and outdated views still play a massive role in society. Women are very much on top of their game equaling men and even surpassing them in earnings, being able to vote and taking every challenge front on and by gosh do we look good doing it. Now don't get me wrong I am no man-hating feminist thats going to ask you stand in the streets and burn your bra, I love men, all I ask is that we be allowed to express our inner sexual desires without being labelled whores. Why Cant I go out as a single lady (hail Beyonce) fulfill my needs with a single man as a 21st century woman without being judged? I feel this issue will affect me for years to come, I want women to stand up and not accept this injustice thrust upon us not just by men but women also, if your happy, not hurting anyone (thats not to say a little BDSM is out of the question) and using protection where is the problem?