When A Man Loves A Woman ...

When in love with a man and that man loves you, the thought of a woman coming in and flirting or even touching (in the most innocent sense) the man in question, would have in previous relationships made my blood boil. How dare some single woman attempt to green light my man! That was until I was that single woman, I am ashamed to admit that I kissed a man I knew was taken. Now don't get me wrong I don't make a habit of kissing red lighted men, especially when I know the other half of the light. But when he approached me and told me how much he wanted me and had for a while, I had a moment of weakness, now don't get me wrong I came to my senses rather quickly, sending him back to his half, but for a split second it was a rush of excitement knowing that he wanted me, knowing he was taken is what made me stop but that was also apart of the excitement. Later, reminiscing on our sexually charged kiss, a thought occurred to me that on some level I had been used, used by a man who should have known better. I discovered men like him give women like me a bad name not that if his other half found out it would be my name that would be tarnished even though he instigated the situation that unfolded. If he did want me surely he should have just put these thought's to the back of his head (or had a quick wank) and focussed on his actual relationship although I don't know how I feel about being spank bank material! Instead he acted upon his urges and potentially jeopardized his relationship with a journalist who writes a gossip column and a sex blog! Luckily for him I'm not one for dropping names so maybe this should be a lesson for Mr Red Light and hopefully a lesson has somewhere been learned, I know I've definitely learned red lighted men should be avoided even if they are good kissers! I do wonder though how many men and women have kissed behind their unsuspecting lovers backs and what percentage of those men and women have done it more than once?